Life is a constant dose of irony
You fall in love with a person, yet that person barely acknowledges you and falls head over heels in love with another.
You love somebody but sometimes you feel they don't love you enough. Sometimes you're way out of your mind with loneliness and grief. Grieving over a love that is still alive, but its flames does not flicker as much.
In relationships, the ones that should get married don't, the ones that shouldn't get married can't wait to run off with each other.
Haven't we all heard the phrase "the good ones die young"? I've been forced to believe it myself, not only because it does seem true, but because i lost my father and his brother young. They were the most humble and respectable people I've known. They would have given up their lives for other people...they were selfless individuals.
Some people will say life is a lottery. Some of us have brains, some of us don't, some draw cancer, others win car accidents and plane crashes. Nobody really has it all, no man, no woman. Life messes with you so much that deep down there's always something nagging you, taunting you, mocking you, keeping you up at night.
We seem to know so much about life and yet we know so little.
Wouldn't the last blow be beating life at its own game? Finding happiness even in that hard situation, looking at the positives in the life we have. If the good ones died young the positive in my fathers death would be that i was lucky enough to have him in my life until i was 16, not a lot of people have that blessing, most people don't have father figures in their lives. If you're in a relationship no matter how trying it might be, the positive is that you have somebody to share you're life with, if its abusive its never too late to take the reins of your life and steer life's boat right into the direction you want it to take you to because we have just one chance to make this work, we all have one shot at life, if we mess it up there's no coming back from the grave to strengthen things out.
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